What “Came” first: Main Course or Intercourse?

By Carl-Henri Boulos

While the world of dating is sometimes confusing, there is one thing that is always clear: Dinner usually leads to sex. In this modern time, many may believe that the dinner before sex is overrated and working up an appetite for the forthcoming dinner is more worthwhile. Many couples later in their relationships take this action by having fruits and other ingredients in bed after intercourse. Which leads the question, if the chemistry is right, what should come first Intercourse or the Main Course? How do you come up with the “game plan” to what your date will go like. This can qualify for not only the first date, but any date. If you have been in dating this girl or guy for a while, and the chemistry has been aroused to sexual level. It is suggested that you take the initiative to be prepared. No matter what date, you go on it is always good to be prepared.

If you plan on having sex after dinner it should be known to have everything working in your favor. Signals, mood, and the food should all simulate sex in a subtle yet clear way. If your cooking, make sure it is on point. It is known as humans we love the succulence of taste. Then after we eat too much pasta and savor dessert, we take a nap, wake up, and make love. Hopefully you will keep the dinner light, to cut out the nap and waking up. Knowing the different kind of aphrodisiacs are a good plus. Then start your night with bubbling champagne with a succulent floating strawberry. Both the French and the Italians believe in the potent power of a strawberry, the perfect little heart, all juicy and red. In the world of erotic literature, they are called "fruit nipples."

Next you might serve up some raw oysters. According to Live Science: "The Romans placed the oyster high on their list of prized aphrodisiacs. Casanova, the legend goes, would eat 50 raw oysters for breakfast. Yet interestingly, oysters (and pine nuts, another ancient aphrodisiac) are high in zinc, which is necessary for sperm production.

Discovery Health tells us, "The psychological impact of believing that oysters, raw bull's testicles ("prairie oysters", as they are called), clams, celery, or tomatoes are aphrodisiacs is sometimes strong enough to produce, at least temporarily, greater sexual desire or performance. If oysters do not suit you, try a juicy tomato and avocado, and asparagus salad. Yes, all three are high on the sexy food list.

Finally, be prepared in the bed. Try sexy positions, impress your partner; this could be your future love making partner for a while. If missionary has become monotonous, and doggy has gotten dull. Tonight, skip the same-old-same-old and give Leg Wrap, Easy Rider, or The Sun Worshiper a try. This doesn’t mean you can’t use the original positions. The thing is if you want sex before dinner just do all of this… In reverse.